Love and relationships are the number one topic of conversation when people speak to a psychic. While it is valuable to look to the future, we can also seek advice from the stars to find a love match – but it’s important to remember love doesn’t always come easy, especially in a pandemic!

Your horoscopes can tell you a lot about relationship compatibility, but I always remind people it’s very important to know your own worth. 

You can consult your zodiac sign to see who you are generally compatible or incompatible with, but for specifics, you do need to know your time, place and date of birth to be most accurate.

You can also look at the elements – Earth, Fire, Air and Water – in connection with astrology to be even more specific.

Relationships are hard at the best of times, and they are even harder now because of all the stress and anxiety with the COVID pandemic going on in the background.

Coronavirus has put a lot of pressure on people and anxiety levels are higher than usual.

In 2021 we are being called to be more independent – with COVID adding fuel to the fire:

• Marriages under stress: Traditions such as getting married, having children and staying home have been undergoing stress for a long time.
• Call to independence: We are being encouraged to strike out on our own in some way, even within the structure of marriage or partnership. 
• It doesn’t mean the end: Relationships will change as each party becomes less dependent and more whole within themselves – it doesn’t mean established relationships will end.
• Both parties need space as well as time together: It’s important people in new or existing relationships, or singles, keep in mind the key to success is having your own interests and time apart, rather than being co-dependent.

While the idea of co-dependency in relationships is on the way out, on a spiritual level people are often looking for their soul mate but also have a deeper awareness of what they really require in a REALationship.

There is a huge idea built around twin flames – the fact you can’t be fulfilled without another whole person by your side.

However, my advice would be to go out and enjoy your life, have fun and go slowly – it’s better to be friends first if you are worried or concerned.

You must be happy, content, and confident within yourself first to attract another person because if you come across as too needy or desperate you will repel them straight away or they may try to take advantage if you let them.   

Be clear about what you want to avoid heart break. If you met on dating apps – be cautious, use a reputable one with psychological profiles.

Here are my tips for star sign compatibility:

Aries (March 21 to April 19): is a masculine or ‘yang’ fiery cardinal sign meaning Arians are generally active, passionate and independent with strong opinions. They need partners who understand them and don’t try to dampen their fiery nature. Fire signs Aries, Leo and Sagittarius can make good partners and arguments are quite likely. Air signs Gemini, Libra and Aquarius feed fire but Libra is opposite Aries on the zodiac wheel so this match could bring difficulties. Gemini is a good bet.

Taurus (April 20 to May 20): is a feminine ‘yin’ earthy fixed sign. This means Taureans are generally inward focused, practical and self-directed, verging on stubbornness sometimes! Relationships with Earth signs Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn can work but care needs to be taken that these matches don’t get bogged down in the mud with feelings of depression or being stuck in a rut. Relationships with Water signs Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces can add emotional connection, which is needed for balance, but Scorpio’s opinions can bring clashes. Cancer brings added nurturance.

Gemini (May 21 to June 20): is a ‘yang’ mutable Air sign making Geminis outgoing, communicative and flexible. They can be quite intellectual and like to think and strategise about most things. They get on well with Air signs Gemini, Libra and Aquarius where there is lots of conversation, but some level of detachment can also occur. Fire signs Aries, Leo and Sagittarius are attractive but with Sagittarius there are tendencies for much change, like it or not. A Leo match could work out best.

Cancer (June 21 to July 22): is a ‘yin’ cardinal Water sign so Cancerians are usually self-reflective, emotional and pioneering or instigating. They find support with Water signs Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces; however, these unions can be very emotional and hard work sometimes. Earth signs Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn can supply the grounding that emotional Cancer needs to thrive, but Capricorn can be too serious or conservative for Cancer’s liking. Virgo or Taurus are good prospects.

Leo (July 23 to August 22): is a ‘yang’ fixed Fire sign which is outgoing, warm and often has strong opinions. Though good relationships are possible with other Fire signs Leo, Sagittarius and Aries, arguments can quickly blow up as Fire signs are emotionally volatile. Unions with Air signs Gemini, Libra and Aquarius can work well. However, both Leo and Aquarius tend towards fixed opinions which can create conflict. Relationships with Librans are likely to be passionate and harmonious.

Virgo (August 23 to September 22): is a ‘yin’ mutable Earth sign which is thoughtful, careful and discriminating. Virgo can enjoy good relations with Earth signs Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn but they should guard against the relationship getting stuck in a rut or boredom setting in. Water signs Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces can offer a real sense of connection but sometimes Pisces might be a bit too much to handle. Scorpio relations could be fantastic, Cancer is likely to be good also.

Libra (September 23 to October 22): is a ‘yang’ cardinal Air sign which loves beauty, peace but most of all love. Libran is indeed in love with the idea of love and can enjoy wonderful relationships with other Air signs including Libra, Gemini and Aquarius. The most likely issue however is that sometimes there is a degree of detachment. Fire signs Aries, Leo and Sagittarius can make good partners. However, there can be strong clashes with Aries sometimes. Leo is likely to be attractive.

Scorpio (October 23 to November 21): is a ‘yin’ fixed Water sign focusing on inner reflection and intense emotions. Scorpios are often ‘magnetically attractive’, and Water Signs Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces make good partners. There can be a lot of emotionality in these relationships however taking both partners down deep into subconscious waters. Earth signs Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn help ground Scorpio in practical reality, but Taurus can seem somewhat conservative to Scorpio. Virgo and Capricorn could make excellent partners.

Sagittarius (November 22 to December 21): is a ‘yang’ mutable Fire sign being adventurous and expansive. Sagittarius enjoys freedom and needs an open-minded partner so Fire signs Aries, Leo and Sagittarius are good potential partners, although relations with Fire signs can bring both passion and volatility. Relationships with Air signs Gemini, Libra and Aquarius can work very well. However, sometimes fiery clashes will occur with Gemini.

Capricorn (December 22nd to January 19): is a ‘yin’ cardinal Earth sign being solid, dependable and generally hardworking. Relationships with Earth signs Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn can work well as you both work towards the same things. There is a risk of these unions being bogged down by work commitments and seriousness. Ideally, you could have more fun with Water signs Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces which complement Capricorn. Cancer matches can sometimes bring too much emotionality for Capricorns, so Scorpio and Pisces are the best partnership bets.

Aquarius (January 20th to February 18): is a ‘yang’ fixed Air sign being sociable, innovative and humanitarian. Air signs Gemini, Libra and Aquarius all make good partners, and the only risks are you talk for hours and hours and don’t get much done or a feeling of detachment from each other can sometimes occur. Fire signs Aries, Leo and Sagittarius can make great partners, but Leo can sometimes seem a bit overly opinionated for Aquarius.

Pisces (February 19 to March 20): is a ‘yin’ mutable Water sign being emotional, intuitive and creative. Water signs Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces are suitable for deep and passionate relationships however sometimes there can be too much emotion coming to the surface. Earth signs Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn provide stability and grounding bringing balance, but Virgo may find Pisces intensity a bit much sometimes.