First Dates: 5 Signs That He’s Really Into You

Signs he's into you on first dates

Like you, we sat cringing as more hopefuls crashed and burned on the fifth round of First Dates on Seven last night.

But before you make the first move yourself – and risk joining these dating tragics – two experts have shared 5 crucial signs that you should look for before taking the plunge.

James Preece, also known as The Dating Guru, and Alexander Ziff, founder of Ciao Dating app, tell The Daily Mail there are clear signs that someone is romantically interested in you.

If you can spot them all, you stand a much better chance of narrowing down the field and finding Mr Right.

1. Closing the gap

We all have our own personal body space that we protect at all times. If someone is interested in you then they’ll do their best to get closer to you and break this down.

This can be by placing a hand on your arm or by moving their chair a bit nearer. If you are responsive to their touch then things could escalate quickly.

5 signs he likes you

2. Rapid blinking

If you notice they are blinking much more than usual, that’s a great indication they like you. That’s because prolonged eye contact, combined with excitement, forces their eyes to dry out much faster.

They might also fidget a lot as they can’t control their actions. Bigger pupils, blushing and leaning toward you when you talk are also tell-tale signs, as are looking for any excuse to touch you and lip licking.

3. Talking too much and teasing you

Men who are interested in a woman will try and talk as much about themselves as possible. That’s because men are conditioned to boast and attempt to impress, so they’ll do their best to show off in the hope you’ll be attracted to them. It’s not that they aren’t listening, just that they want you to like them back.

Signs he loves you

4. Noticing little changes

If they comment when you change your hairstyle or wear something different, then they could well like you. People who are interested will pay extra attention to the smaller details.

So when they notice something has changed, they’ll comment on it. If they weren’t interested they would never have spotted this to start with.

5. Playing hard to get

Unfortunately, some people who like you will try to make you think the exact opposite. They won’t text you back for ages and won’t make you feel special; that’s because they believe they shouldn’t appear too keen in case it’s a turn off.

They’ll play hard to get as they want to look as if they have other options. So don’t always read too much into bad behaviour, especially in the early days.

Written by James Graham

With over 20 years as a journalist and TV producer, The Carousel Editor James Graham has a wealth of experience covering the full media spectrum.

James has a formidable reputation as a talented media veteran and worked as a reporter, script writer and as the producer of the TV documentary The Road To Athens.

He has worked across newspapers, radio and the biggest flagship magazine brands in Australia and New Zealand. Previously, James was the News Director at Woman's Day and New Idea.

Whether filing celebrity exclusives, or some of the biggest real-life splashes of recent years, James’ career has always been at the frontline of mainstream media.

When not in the Ed’s chair, you’ll find him at Royal Randwick, his beloved Long Reef Golf Club on the Northern Beaches – or visiting his mum in his native New Zealand.

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